5 Tips On Dating Again After Breakup

 5 Tips On Dating Again After Breakup

Starting a new relationship after a recent (or not too recent) breakup usually takes a lot of strength and boldness. There is that part of wanting to be careful so as not to repeat the same mistakes from the last relationship, then there is the part that does not want to compare yet does not want to be taken for granted.

Many times getting to walk through these can be so demanding you don’t even want to try afresh. However, one must try to heal from the past and move on as soon as one knows s/he is ready for a new relationship.

Sometimes, even when we get advances from people we tend to turn them down due to fears and uncertainties. The truth is all these are understandable and are very valid, also, another truth is that it is possible to find love again after a breakup if one does the right things. That is what this article is about.

Here are 5 tips on dating again after a breakup.

1.      Have A Positive Mind-set

There is usually that cloud of pessimism that tries to come after a breakup. There is usually that urge to feel like you are not good enough or that the new person will do something wrong sooner or later. This kind of mind-set can cause some trouble, such as seeing flaws where there are none.

Approaching a new relationship with the right mind-set can help you enjoy the relationship.

2.      Don’t Compare The New Partner With Your Ex

Another urge we get when getting into new relationships or relating with people is comparing people. There will be that temptation to expect certain things from your old relationship to be done by your new partner.

Doing this can prevent you from understanding the new partner’s uniqueness and in effect, prevent you from enjoying the new relationship due to disappointments. It is important to fight that urge as much as possible.

3.      Take Things Slow

Most times when we get into a new relationship we always want to rush things and go so fast. This most times is because we see the new relationship as a gift for our healing so we do things because we are scared of losing this new one.

We should however, learn to take things slow and allow time help us learn things about each other.

4.      Do Other Things Apart From Dating

That one is in a relationship does not mean s/he should not do other things. Other things like going to the movies alone or shopping or spending time with the girls or boys or other fun things alone. In fact, it is a good thing to do too.

This helps you not get too worked up with the relationship. Also, you get to live an understanding life knowing that you both have your individual lives too apart from each other. You also get to enjoy your individual lives.

5.      Set Realistic Expectations

Even though one should not expect too much from his or her partner because they are also humans, one should also expect some things. Not having any expectations can make one taken for granted by his or her partner.

However, one’s expectations should be realistic, not something formed from mars or fantasies. They should be things you know your partner can do.

Let us know some other tips on how to date again after a relationship in the comments section below.

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Sir Ariez


Waheed Ade Akinleye known as "Sir Ariez" is a blogger/CEO at Ariezblog.com & Affiliates. He's also a content writer, digital marketer and serial entrepreneur.

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